Sometimes life takes a dire turn only b’coz it is meant to. Journeys do not halt at one place nor does life, things r bound to change. It depends on us whether to explore the new life or just snub it by getting lost in the past. Life never promised that things‘ll stay the same, sometimes moving on is the only way ahead. The earlier we accept it, the better it is for us.
This season feels like a break up season or rather a heart breaking one. The darkness spreads and persists if u blow off the last stick you had. But what is more powerful than this glowing stick to keep the hope alive?
Probably the hope within you, yes the belief that you still have the strength to carry on, the will to move on.
It hurts to lose your dear ones and nobody ever wishes to. But some have their priorities, be it their career or their dreams, some have to make many compromises in life. Other few are left with no other choices but to leave.
How and why do things go wrong? Nobody knows better than you yourself. There is no point cursing your destiny by thinking ‘why me??’
We love someone and think that one belongs to us; we take it for granted that one will stay forever in our life. We want everything to happen our way. But one thing we forget that we don’t get everything in life, b'coz its life after all!
My friend, thinking of whom I’m writing this, has been into a relationship for many years. So much so that she cannot imagine her life without this guy. Yes he loves her more than anything in this world. So what went wrong?
Was it her fault or his? Wasn’t there enough space in their relationship? Why did he abuse her so badly? Would you call this as love if he could actually utter such words for her every time? Even then why is it so hard to not go back after getting so hurt from that person every single time? Why do they still keep on waiting for each others’ calls? Over possessiveness kills the relationship. So far none survived. You lose the respect for others as well as for yourself. Like an addiction it prolongs.
Mind says move on, but heart pleads to hang on. Whom should one listen to? Perhaps coming this long was their mistake even after knowing it would not work in the future. If they knew it for so long, why did they not put an end to it long back?
There are no answers to these questions.
Nobody in this world is bad at heart. Sometimes you just prefer postponing things, thinking, ‘Jo hoga dekha jayega’. In this way we spoil all the moments in the life by not enjoying today with the fear of the future nor do we enjoy tomorrow by missing that person in life. Things come to a point where you believe that, what you do is only right and then regret all life.
Nobody in this world is bad at heart. Sometimes you just prefer postponing things, thinking, ‘Jo hoga dekha jayega’. In this way we spoil all the moments in the life by not enjoying today with the fear of the future nor do we enjoy tomorrow by missing that person in life. Things come to a point where you believe that, what you do is only right and then regret all life.
Today you’ll see that person everywhere you go; you’ll relate every single thing to him. Sulky evenings, shinning stars in the dark sky and those empty shivering mornings will always remind you of him. But all you need is the courage, the respect for yourself and the belief that you can live without him. Yes that part will get emptied to be filled by someone else or just stay empty forever if you wish so.
And so think wisely before you jump into anything thinking of it as ‘love’. It doesn't take much time to enter someone’s life but it sure is a hell of a task to come out of it.
Ishan
Ishan
